A bette midler movie?

it also stars another actress. the two of them are in love with same man. he is with the other actress in a car he gets out when they near a florist shop and he walks in and the florist blows up. the two women go to the morgue to identify his body and come up with the conclusion it wasnt him that was blown up in the explosion. now they are on determined to find out what happened to him. my dad says other actress barbara hershey and i think is meryl streep. is not "beaches".